Theres a Song John Mayer wrote called "Daughters", I think if you're a parent you should listen to it. The lyrics are raw and so true. When you're a parent you need to give your child stability, and be a "fit" parent. Giving your child instability, for example, telling your kid "This is daddy" and then going and telling him/her "This is your daddy too" is wrong. You effect your kid NOW. Doing this like yelling and cursing infront of your child while they are young can still effect them. I'm young but I took enough classes on the human brain and child development to back myself up. Also what I believe is wrong is taking your child away from the only father they know just because you're selfish. Once you have a baby it's not all about you, it's about YOUR CHILD. You are your childs role model, so act like an adult. You made an adult decision to keep a baby, create a baby, adopt a baby, get a sperm donor ect. Not only are you screwing up your childs life, but it could be inpacting someone elses life as well.
"I'm starting with the man in the mirror, i'm asking him to change his ways. And no message would have been any clearer, if you wana make the world a better place."
BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD. Start with you & the next generation first.
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